Make Deposits...

Sometimes we have to accept we get what we give.. ie. You can't expect or penalize...what you are not willing to freely give yourself. 

Meaning you cant ask people to do things or penalize them because they  won't do things you want..especially when you are not willing to reciprocate

To reciprocate means to not do that which would be pleasing to you, but that which would be pleasing to the other person..

We have to make deposits in our lives as well as into others. If you take from pantry with out every replenishing it...it will become EMPTY...

YOU GET IT?? EMPTY..

Think about it like this do you want someone taking from you and never giving anything back? You dont have to expect anything but sooner or later you will notice the balance is not balanced..

So you say....

You want love but don't show it
You want peace but don't provide it
You want loyalty but dont give it
You want commitment but dont give it
You want affection but don't show it You want to be trusted but don't trust anyone.                                                  You want communication but hate talking to people

Maybe you think you do give these things because you are giving what works for you.. but nothing was ever successful long term from selfishness. OR From never seeking to understand and truly cohabitat with someone..

Success require energy and dedication even in the simplest relationships .

So don't forget to make depoits along with those withdrawals..

Keep the happiness circulating..

~Ali

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